Who will YOU chooses to be today?

couragetobeyou high performance joy leadership May 06, 2026

Feeling invisible is more common than we admit — especially in a world where everyone is staring at a screen. But invisibility can also be an opportunity. When no one is watching, you get to choose who you’ll be today. Your story. Your identity. Your move.

 

 

My usual Wednesday morning text to a close friend almost always includes the same line: “It’s Wednesday, and I have absolutely no idea what I’m going to post about.”

Today was no different.

There are hundreds of thoughts in my brain, and most of them would need a special decoder ring to make sense to anyone else. How do I choose?

Lately, I’ve been writing about invisible things - the things we can’t see but can’t live without.

The things we trust. Light, gravity, air.

The things that make life worthwhile. Love, hope, joy.

But what about when we are invisible?

You walk into a meeting and no one looks up from their phone.

You’re a waitress and not one customer looks you in the eye.

You’re standing in a room full of people and somehow feel completely alone.

Reality is having stiff competition with the world people are holding in their hands.

So what do we do?

Do we have the courage to push through and be ourselves?

Or do we cave to the invisible peer pressure - sit down, look busy, and disappear into our own phone?

No. Not us.

We are the ones who choose to live life.

We choose to accept the opportunity right in front of us.

We decide who we’re going to be today - and live it out like the coolest, most fantastical superhero version of ourselves. Why not? No one is watching. This is our story.

When you’re invisible, you can become anything.

You can create the reality of your dreams.

You are unique - use that as your advantage.

What wonderful version of you are you going to be today?

 

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